The Integrated Ascended Master always strives to maintain inner peace at all costs. If a conflict arises, he immediately deals with it and sorts it out. He does not allow unresolved issues to accumulate.
For your enjoyment, here are five keys to resolve conflict should it ever arise.
Key #1 – Communication:
Communicate your thoughts and feelings in a loving, honest and open way. Especially in a conflict, any form of communication should be done in a calm, rational, unconditionally loving manner.
Key #2 – Listen:
Take time to listen and really hear what the other person has to say even if you disagree with where they are coming from.
Key #3 – Don’t be self-righteous:
Always state your thoughts and feelings as “your personal opinion and perception” and avoid being self-righteous even if you know you are right.
Key #4 – Get out of your emotions:
Strive not to be overly emotional and to remain as calm, objective, even-minded and rational as possible.
Key #5 – Put the discussion on the shelf:
If your communication is becoming heated and both of your negative egos are becoming too involved, stop all communication saying that in your observation both of your negative egos and emotional bodies are becoming too engaged and you prefer to end this discussion for now and continue it when both of you are more calm.